The Association of Resident Doctors under the distinguished leadership of Dr Kwarshak Kevin marked the 2025 Father’s Day on Sunday 15th June 2025. It was a celebratory occasion to thank all special dads amongst the community for their commitment to duty and endless devotion and care for their individual families.
The ARD Publicity Committee interviewed some ARDads about their experiences in fatherhood and advice for all men in society. Key excerpts are posted below.
President, ARD JUTH
Surgery Department
001 Dad of ARD JUTH
Chemical Pathology Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
Every day is a proud moment for me as father, especially waking up day by day to see my child showing genuine interest in learning and exploring new things.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
To all struggling men, always follow and take action on what you are passionate about, and even if you don’t know the next steps, it’s okay u will figure it out eventually.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
One secret to a happy home is fostering an open communication, prioritizing quality time together, and creating a safe and secure space for all members of the family.
Ex-Officio II, ARD JUTH
Internal Medicine Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
The day I held my first daughter shortly after delivery.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
The joy of fatherhood greatly outweighs the perceived fears of responsibilities. You’ll never regret being a father.The road sometimes is indeed bumpy, but remain focused and always prioritise your family.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Love your wife, love your children; but most importantly, be available to your family. Always put God at the centre of your home, and you’ll never regret it.
Immediate Past Vice-President, ARD JUTH
Obstetrics and Gynaecology Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
The day my first daughter first called me daddy!
How will you encourage struggling men today?
To keep hope alive.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Forgive easily, love unconditionally.
Past General Secretary, ARD JUTH
Ophthalmology Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
Proudest moment as a father was witnessing the birth of my daughter.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
Learn hope to manage your finances and have other sources of income besides your monthly salary.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Make your wife and children happy by investing your time and finances in your family.
OGM LOC Secretary, ARD JUTH
Internal Medicine Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
My proudest moment as a father is when I see joy and happiness in the eyes of my wife and kids.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
My advice to men in these struggling times is that tough times never last but tough people do, whatever challenges we face as men are just temporal and there’s light at the end of the tunnel.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Being faithful and committed to your home is the secret to a happy home.
General Secretary, ARD JUTH
Otorhinolaryngology (ENT) Department
The Scribe and Super-Dad of the Association
Orthopaedics and Trauma Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
A proud moment for many fathers is watching my son growing into happy and compassionate individuals who will make a positive impact in the world and also being able to meet his needs and mentor him as father.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
“To struggling men, I would say that it’s okay to ask for help and that seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness. Focus on building a support network, prioritize self-care, and celebrate small victories along the way.”
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
One secret to a happy home is effective communication. When family members feel heard, validated, and understood, it can foster a sense of love, respect, and connection, without God as the center, you will keep struggling.
Chief Resident
Radiology Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
The day my first daughter was delivered.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
There will always be challenges but be focused, determined and always hope in God.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Forgiving one another and being prayerful.
Psychiatry Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
Proudest moment as a father was the birth of my daughter.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
Advice to struggling men today is to keep going and hoping, “TRULY THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF EVERY TUNNEL.”
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
For me, one secret of a happy home is a effective communication among all family members.
Chief Resident
Orthopaedics and Trauma Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
There was a day my son truly made me proud. My father has always called me “boy” since I was about ten, and it’s something I’ve grown used to. But on that particular day, when my dad called me “boy,” my son boldly responded, “He’s my father; he’s not a boy.” In that moment, I saw that I was raising a child who understands and stands up for respect.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
Encouragement for struggling men today
Learn to say “no” with confidence and clarity when necessary. It takes strength and wisdom to set boundaries, but doing so protects your peace and helps you stay focused on what truly matters.
Tell us one secret to a happy home
A key to a happy home.
Make kindness a daily habit. Simple, consistent acts of love, respect, and thoughtfulness create the foundation for a joyful and harmonious home.
Vice-President, ARD JUTH
Anatomic Pathology and Forensic Medicine Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
When Adullam was born.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
I’ll just encourage them to trust God and keep Hope Alive.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Make your wife happy.
Financial Secretary, NMA Plateau State
Obstetrics and Gynaecology Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
Proudest moment as a father was the delivery of my twins.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
Tough times don’t last but tough people do,just be that tough guy!
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Learn to understand the unspoken words of your wife.
Immediate Past Assistant General-Secretary, ARD JUTH
Otorhinolaryngology (ENT) Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
Seeing my sacrifices yielding results.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
Men should persevere, understand and listen to the needs of there family.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Communication and trust.
Obstetrics and Gynaecology Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
The first day my daughter smiled at me.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
Faith and perseverance can be powerful tools in navigating life’s challenges. Believing in God almighty and approaching struggles with a holistic mindset can provide strength and guidance. It’s a reminder that life’s journey is ongoing, and every moment presents opportunities for growth and progress.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Secret of a happy home is tolerance, patience and accountability.
Immediate Past Secretary, Electoral Committee, ARD JUTH.
Anaesthesia Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
One of the proudest moments as a Father is seeing our children grow into a kind, compassionate, and responsible individual.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
- Listen don’t judge, share your feelings and concerns.
- Exercise regularly, have fun in your hobbies.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Showing gratitude and Celebration of
milestones and achievements together.
Financial Secretary, ARD JUTH
Surgery Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
Proudest moment is when my wife gave birth to our first child.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
Keep it up. Hand your struggles over to God, for He cares for you.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
My wife is my helper, so I get to do things while she helps. So, every responsibility at home belongs to me but she helps me out. So, I don’t get to overburden her with work.
Paediatrics Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
Showing up for my family and providing them oversight (covering).
How will you encourage struggling men today?
Find a circle of vulnerability/accountability where you’ll bare your heart and exchange strength.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Living with understanding and placing reasonable/healthy expectations.
Past Vice-President, ARD JUTH
Family Medicine Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
Being able to meet up with my roles/obligations/responsibilities as a Father.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
To diversify their sources of income, live within their means, seek help and birth a family that they can adequately cater for.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Do your best and leave the rest to God.
Chairman, 2025 AGM LOC, ARD JUTH
Community Medicine Department
What is your proudest moment as a Father?
Beholding my first child.
How will you encourage struggling men today?
Be true to yourself and your family. Remember, the challenge of today shall pass.
Tell us one secret to a happy home.
Effective communication.